Hello, my
name is Sue Cadwell and my daughter's name is Ayla. We have been living
for the past four and a half years in Massachusetts. We live in a big attic
apartment
not far from the downtown area of Springfield. We will be moving by mid September
into a first floor apartment not too far from where we live now.
Moving is difficult
under the best of circumstances and Ayla's ability to adjust and "go
with the flow" of things helps me to make the decisions that I feel are
best for her and I. We are pretty much settled into the area and into the
all too familiar routine of doctors, therapists, and clinics. I'm also
a single parent. Raising a child alone is difficult enough; raising a
child who is physically challenged is an adventure. It raises many
obstacles, but I tend to look at them as challenges and face them head
on. Ayla is the same way. She is an amazing little girl who has taught
me so much; not only about the value of life, but about cherishing what
you do have and not complaining about what you don't. Everyone that has
ever come in contact with her has been touched by her spirit. She truly
is my angel.
Ayla was born with Myelomeningocele, which is the most severe form of
Spina Bifida. The left side of her body was mostly affected. Her
abdominals and back muscles are weak on the left side. She has little
to no feeling in her pelvic area, and her left leg has minimal muscle
control. Because of the weakness of muslces in the left side, the more
dominant muscles on the ride side of her back have pulled the spine to
the right, resulting in scoliosis; which is quite commmon in this form
of spina bifida. Ayla now wears a special thoracic/lumbar/sacral brace
that is suspended from the back of her wheelchair for up to eight hours
a day. With gravity on her side, we hope this will prevent the curvature
of the spine from worsening. She also has a shunt in her head as a result of
hydrocephalus. The shunt allows the drainage of cerebralspinal fluid
from the ventricals of the brain by way of a tube that then drains the
fluid into the abdominal cavity. Ayla is faced with more surgeries in
her future, but she is not alone by any means. We face them together.
Ayla will be starting fifth grade at Rebecca M. Johnson Elementary
in Springfield. She
has adjusted quite well to her surroundings, her teachers, and her
classmates. She is always happy and positive and makes friends easily.
Her favorite subjects continue to be music and art.
I don't wish to bore you with alot of details on this page; so please
feel free to browse around. I think that you will find it easy to
navigate. I wanted to give you enough information to read so that you
could know that myself and my daughter are for real. This way, you will
be able to make an informed decision about whether or not you would
like to help out. I do not want to pressure anyone into doing something
they don't want to do. Thank you for taking the time to read this site.

"If we ever wish to know angels for
what they truly are...
perhaps it is we who must first
learn to fly."
-Anonymous